Change

Pressing pause on a relationship

CakeTue 9th March 2021

It became clear to us in December that it was time to stop. Time to stop tearing and...

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How to make a change in an existing relationship – de-escalation, transitions and moving beyond the binary of together / break-up

CakeTue 9th March 2021

One of the biggest challenges in relationships can be times of changing needs. It is typical when our...

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Decades, weeks and days – reflections on time, work, society and self

CakeTue 9th March 2021

The ongoing COVID-19 pandemic has shifted concepts of time for many of us as we negotiate much less...

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Stopping drinking for the second (and third) time

CakeSat 27th June 2020

I’ve touched on the topic of drinking before and many people that know me also know that I...

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Food, change and hope – thoughts on Veganuary

CakeWed 1st January 2020

I used to think that the big changes in my life started with stopping drinking but, before that,...

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New words and old feelings – values based living and loving

CakeMon 18th November 2019

I was lucky enough to speak with Martha Lane-Fox at the TEDx Open University event in November 2019....

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Friendship and change – thoughts inspired by IT Chapter 2

CakeFri 20th September 2019

This post was inspired by the watching of IT Chapter 2 and by the re-reading of the Stephen...

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Game changers – what they are and how they affect you and your relationships

CakeThu 25th July 2019

Game changer. This isn’t a very well-known phrase in dating and relationship circles but it’s a very common...

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“Opening up about relationships” – a panel discussion on 18 April 2019

CakeTue 16th April 2019

I have been invited to take part in a panel discussion about open and monogamous relationships. The event...

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