The Guardian article 20/01/18

CakeSat 20th January 2018

I always hoped sharing my story would help people to see that a changed and ended marriage is not a failure but, instead, evidence that the relationship created the space and support for both individuals to grow and change and that, as with much change, it had some unintended consequences. Marc and I are proof that a separation and divorce can be a compassionate, kind and caring transition.

I am proud to identify as non-monogamous or poly. It is not so much as a choice as part of who I am. It is a way of living and loving that has led to me understanding myself more clearly as I am right now. It has also given me the chance to learn skills which mean I interact with everyone in my life in a more authentic, conscious and compassionate way: including myself.…