Disappointment

CakeTue 7th September 2021

—Can we go to the crystals shop? —I’m sorry, I can’t do that with you right now. I...

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Conscious relationships: not a numbers game

CakeFri 27th August 2021

Many people think about non-monogamy or poly in terms of numbers: numbers of partners, play friends, lovers.  This...

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Dreaming relationships

CakeFri 27th August 2021

When it comes to relationships, what we want might be at odds with what we need. And, when...

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Living is growing

CakeMon 28th June 2021

Many of us become more interested in dying and death as we age because, in a way, that’s...

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Endings can also be beginnings

CakeMon 28th June 2021

Navigating shifts in feeling intensity This is part of a series of pieces on conscious relating. Other forthcoming...

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Crushes

CakeMon 28th June 2021

This is part of a series on conscious relating. Other pieces are on endings, de-escalation and pauses. Conscious...

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New relationship energy – how NRE can be felt across your life and how to enjoy it

CakeMon 28th June 2021

This is part of a series of pieces on conscious relating. Other pieces are on pauses in relationships,...

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Pressing pause on a relationship

CakeTue 9th March 2021

It became clear to us in December that it was time to stop. Time to stop tearing and...

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How to make a change in an existing relationship – de-escalation, transitions and moving beyond the binary of together / break-up

CakeTue 9th March 2021

One of the biggest challenges in relationships can be times of changing needs. It is typical when our...

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