Midlife mayhem and magic – thoughts and dreams for everyone

CakeTue 27th September 2022

Midlife (by which I mean your 40s and 50s) is a magic- and mayhem-filled time of change and...

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Conscious Commitment

CakeTue 7th June 2022

Commitment is a marker for many long-term relationships and is often something we also crave or need from...

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Disappointment

CakeTue 7th September 2021

—Can we go to the crystals shop? —I’m sorry, I can’t do that with you right now. I...

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Conscious relationships: not a numbers game

CakeFri 27th August 2021

Many people think about non-monogamy or poly in terms of numbers: numbers of partners, play friends, lovers.  This...

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Dreaming relationships

CakeFri 27th August 2021

When it comes to relationships, what we want might be at odds with what we need. And, when...

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Living is growing

CakeMon 28th June 2021

Many of us become more interested in dying and death as we age because, in a way, that’s...

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Endings can also be beginnings

CakeMon 28th June 2021

Navigating shifts in feeling intensity This is part of a series of pieces on conscious relating. Other forthcoming...

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Crushes

CakeMon 28th June 2021

This is part of a series on conscious relating. Other pieces are on endings, de-escalation and pauses. Conscious...

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New relationship energy – how NRE can be felt across your life and how to enjoy it

CakeMon 28th June 2021

This is part of a series of pieces on conscious relating. Other pieces are on pauses in relationships,...

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