Someone you know is kinky…

One of those someone’s is me. Since the first big interview I have done as part of the publicity...

Learning how to be alive

Learning to write is like learning to be alive: an essentially solitary journey where you are already good...

I always describe Appetite as being about food and sex and it is but it is more than...

Sometimes we uncover BIG things. Sometimes, the work of months and months of therapy can feel very unrewarding,...

I read this article and posted this tweet today. No explicit conversations, relying on “mutual understanding”, ignoring boundaries...

Label-free and limitless relationships: Embracing relational authenticity One of the first things we do with children is teach...

The Greeks had over half a dozen words for love, many European languages distinguish between romantic and familial love...

It is fascinating to see so many representations of non-monogamy and polyamory surfacing in the media at the...

Here it is. The first post! The first hello from here 🙂 Some of you have read me...