I recently had a wonderful conversation with writer and traveller, Christine Wild, about desire and conscious relationships, here...

I love it when you come across a simple idea communicated effectively in a short piece of writing,...

Commit to explicit, honest and timely communication The importance of clear and open communication cannot be over-stated. This means...

One of the most common accusations I have had levelled at me since I came out about my...

I contributed, with Andrea, to a converation on BBC Five Live about conscious relationships earlier in April. The...

In pondering polyamory and my journey so far, it occurred to me that almost all the problems I...

I turn 42 today and, as a huge Douglas Adams fan, the parallels between my age and Deep Thought’s...

In which Lori Beth and I talk about my formative relationship with sex, how that shaped my 20s...

I write a lot about sex in my novel Appetite but I never mention consent. Not writing about consent was...